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Kevin Lorch's avatar

Spot on, Jeanie. The social taboos surrounding grief are complex. So often just a simple check-in and being present can mean a great deal.

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Jeannie Moloo's avatar

Absolutely, Kevin. The silence around grief can be isolating, so those small gestures of presence and care are truly meaningful. Thank you for reading and commenting.

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Dana Carr's avatar

Well said, Jeannie. Most people don’t understand this until they have been on the caregiver/grieving side of things. This is so helpful for those afraid to “say the wrong thing” so choose to say nothing.

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Jeannie Moloo's avatar

Thank you, Dana. It’s something I didn’t fully understand myself until I was on the other side. It's such a common fear, but often just showing up, even without the perfect words, can mean the world to someone who is grieving or caregiving.

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Judy Fields's avatar

So well said. Hope I'm correct that you are turning all these into a phamphlet/book to help other families. Your comments will help others walking a similar path--not one that anyone wants to experience. Sending a big hug too!

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Jeannie Moloo's avatar

Thank you, Judy. I've been working on a book that includes my thoughts and experiences into something more comprehensive to help others. It's not been easy given the topic, but if my experiences can offer some guidance or comfort, that's what is important.

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